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New Consciousness

01 November 2008

Our Universal Beliefs & Fears

The Divine Matrix provides the quantum mirrors that show us what we have created in our beliefs; through our relationships with other people and the world. We're presented with people who give us the clearest examples and experiences of what those beliefs really are. Sometimes our mirrors are obvious & we realize that's the way things work, other times they surprise us by reflecting the subtle reality of a judgment that's very different from what we thought we believed.

The Divine Matrix constantly reflects our beliefs, feelings & emotions through the events of our lives; that everyday world provides insights about our deepest realms of our hidden selves. In our personal mirrors we are shown our truest connections, fears & love. The World is powerful, often literal mirror one that isn't easy to face. With complete honesty, life gives us a direct window into the ultimate reality of our beliefs and sometimes our reflections come to us in ways that we would never expect.

In a world where life itself mirrors our deepest beliefs, there can be few things that are truly secret. Ultimately, it probably matters less how the unexpected curves in the road of life comes our way & more; whether or not we recognize the language that warns us of them. Regardless of what the mirrors teach us by spending time with others, they become the triggers for just the right emotions & feelings in precisely the right times in our lives; to help us heal our greatest hurts & deepest wounds. Our relationships show us joy & love as well as our fears, which generally are the triggers of our profound lessons in life. Relationships from the greatest betrayals of our trust to our desperate attempts to fill our emptiness or loneliness; everyone shows us something about ourselves. The Wisdom to recognize the messages that are being mirrored to us, we discover the beliefs that cause the suffering in our lives. Our mirrors in our lives never stop, they are always working ... there's no escape and the mirrors never lie.

Fear has many masks in our culture. It plays a key role in the way we build everything from our friendships, careers to our romances & the health of our bodies; fear surfaces almost on a daily basis as a pattern in our lives that we don't recognize. Interestingly the patterns may not even be ours.

When we find ourselves touched by an experience that brings powerful negative emotions to the surface of our lives; we can rest assured that no matter what we think has caused fear to arise, there's a good possibility that something different is being played out - something so deep & primal that it's easy to overlook; until it crosses our paths in a way that can't be mistaken.

Almost universally the situations that caused people to feel stuck have roots in what are considered negative feelings. These emotions that we have about our own experiences and what they mean to us in our lives. While we can't alter what has happened, we can understand why we feel as we do and change what our life history mean to us.

This mystery is the patterns that run deeply in the fabric of our collective consciousness, our core or universal fears. A few sampling of terms used or felt by people shows us identical adjectives including the following:

Angry	controlling	judgmental	Jealous
Abusive	Strict	revengeful	resentful
Fearful	dishonest	hopeless	helpless
Greed/Lack	cold	conflict	hate

Universal patterns of fear are so subtle in their expression yet so powerful to recall, we skillfully create the masks that make them bearable and invisible sometimes. We are so successfully in concealing our greatest fears for all intents & purposes, the original reasons in our hurts are forgotten and all that remains is our expression - that is to act them out. The ways we mask our fears that we never have to talk about the deepest hurts of our lives; yet they remain with us, lingering & unresolved until something happens and we can no longer simply look in another direction. When we allow ourselves to go deeper into these powerful unmasked moments of life; they resolved into one of the three basic patterns or contributions of them as follows .......


1.   Universal Fear of Separation & Abandonment

Universally there is a feeling that runs through each of us that we are alone. Within each person & every family, there's an unspoken sense that we're somehow separated from whomever or whatever is responsible for our existence. We feel somewhere in the mist of our ancient memory we were brought here and then abandoned without any explanation or reason.

In the presence of the science that can place a human on the moon and translate our genetic code, we still don't really know who we are and we certainly don't know for sure how we get here. We sense our spiritual nature from within while we look to validate our feelings, from literature, cinema to music & culture. We make distinction between our places here on earth and a distant heaven somewhere else.

When we have a fear in our lives, even if we aren't consciously aware of precisely what it is , it creates an emotional bias in our bodies - an experience often described as a 'charge' or ' hot button'. This show up in our lives as the strong ideas we have, as to something is 'rightness' or 'wrongness' or the way that a situation 'should' play out. Our 'charge' or 'hot buttons' are the promise that we create the relationships that show as us which fear is asking to be healed. In another word, these charges show us our fears - the greater one is the deeper the fear and they are seldom wrong.

If you don't consciously remember your fear of separation or abandonment, there is a good possibility that it will show up in your life in ways you least expected and during the times that are most inconvenient. It might get you through your entire life, becomes your way of looking away from the universal fear that you are separated from the Wholeness of your Creator, abandoned and eventually forgotten.


2.   Universal Fear - Low Self Esteem

Almost universally there's a feeling that runs through each of us in every culture and society of our world that we are somehow just not good enough. We feel we don't deserve recognition for our contribution to our families, communities and workplace, we aren't worthy of being honored and respected. Sometimes we even feel we aren't good enough to be alive.

This sense of low self-worth may not always be conscious, it's there continuously and certainly providing the underlying foundation for the way we approach life and our relationships with other people.

Although we wish for greater things, the doubts come from within us, ultimately come from our feelings of low worth. Everyone has dreams, hopes and aspirations of accomplishing great things in our lives but more often than not we rationalize all the reasons why we will never have them. Our fears of not being valuable or good enough to have love, acceptance, health and longevity promises that every one of our relationships will reflect the fear of low worth.

As a master of emotional survival, we often find ourselves playing out the real life scenarios that equate to the imaginary values we place ourselves.
Emotion is the language into itself, the very language that Divine Matrix or Universe or God responds to. When we feel as though we can't achieve our biggest dreams, the Matrix simply gives back to us what we've given it to work with ..... such as delays< challenges and obstacles etc >>>>


3.   Universal Fear - Surrender & Trust

Universally there's a feeling within each of us that is not safe to trust other people, the wisdom of our bodies or the peace of our world. From the terror, murder & assaults that we see in the world at large to the violations of trust and betrayals that we experienced in our personal lives and the myriad health concerns; we are cautioned that our life on earth certainly look like really scary & unsafe place.

Ultimately our sense of safety in the world comes from the security that we feel inside ourselves. To experience this we must trust - if we have faith in the Intelligence of the Universe that's inherent in all situations & all life.

Although all the frightening things we see happening around us are certainly part of a reality; the key to overriding our fears is that they don't necessary need be part of our reality. This may sound like a naïve New Age philosophy,
This is actually a very ancient belief that's now supported by leading-edge science.